Me Before You

Me Before You
Me Before You

This book review was originally published on The Wordy Nerd Books on August 28, 2015.

The topic of caring for disabled people is often one that is difficult to approach.  It is often not easy on the caretaker or the patient but Jojo Moyes does an amazing job at exploring the many facets of the life of a disabled person and a caretaker in Me Before You.  She easily pulls the reader in emotionally and makes you wonder what life would be like if you were facing the same circumstances.  I found myself in love with both of the main characters.  When they were sad, my heart was absolutely broken for them.  When they were happy, I found myself rooting for them.

This book does often involve some pretty hard topics that most people have strong opinions about but I still found it to be a beautiful book.  It is one that will probably affect you on an emotional level but I definitely think it is worth a read.  Moyes writes well and her work is easy to read.  I found myself not wanting to put this book down.  Overall, I rated Me Before You four out of five stars.  It’s a great book but be prepared to feel all the feels!

4 Star Rating

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Hello April!

Wow!  It has been almost a month since I have posted a blog entry.  This past month has just been crazy and busy, but good!

World Traveler

My last blog post was on March 15 and I boarded a plane early the next morning to head to Italy!  I had so much fun in Italy!

I visited Verona, Venice, Florence, Assissi, Pisa, and Rome.  When life slows down a bit, I plan to share a couple of posts about what I did in Italy, what I ate, and my tips for traveling in Italy. For now, I’ll just leave with you some pictures!

Graduate School

When I returned from Italy, I jumped head first into finishing up grad school which is why I neglected the The French Lemon bit. I turned my last paper in this past Wednesday! One final and a seven-hour comprehensive exam at the end of April that stand between me and graduation!  I’m so close but yet it still feels like so much work.  I recently ordered my cap and gown so things are starting to feel real!

Spring Sports

Spring sports are heating up!  Jackson and Emily have both started soccer and Jackson is also playing baseball.  Lauren and Emily are both still dancing three nights a week!  There is a little over a month until the dance recital and I am so ready for it.  It will be nice to have a break from dance classes in the evenings.Hello April Spring Soccer

With all the activities, we are constantly on the go right now.  Jackson and Emily both had their first soccer games this past Saturday…at the same time.  I was trying to watch both fields and catch both of them playing!  They both played well and were happy to be back on the field.

Growing Babies

Harrison and Katherine are growing so fast!  I can’t believe that they are going to be eight months old in just a couple of weeks.  Both babies have two bottom teeth.  Harrison is currently working on cutting his first top tooth.  He also started crawling last week!  Katherine doesn’t seem to have much interest in crawling just yet. Time slow down!

Books

Guess what?  Grad school has gotten close enough to wrapping up that I was able to take some time and read a book for pleasure!  I had almost forgotten what that felt like!  After I take my comprehensive exam on April 26, I plan to do quite a bit of reading and I can’t wait to share what I am reading with you!

Drop me a comment and tell me what you have been reading lately!

Hope you all have a Happy Easter this weekend!

 

What I Learned When I Traveled to Europe While Pregnant With Twins

This time last year I was getting ready to head to England and France for Spring Break.  The trip had been planned and paid for long before I knew I was pregnant with Harrison and Katherine.  When I saw that first positive pregnancy test at the end of December, I experienced a moment of panic. I reminded myself that people travel while pregnant all the time.  In mid-January, we found out that we were expecting twins and I, once again, got a little bit nervous about traveling.  Two separate doctors gave me the okay to travel while pregnant with twins. At a little over 16 weeks pregnant, I hopped on a plane and took off.  It was an awesome experience but I did learn a few things about traveling while pregnant.

What I Learned About Traveling While Pregnant

  1. Get the okay from your doctor.

    As long as you are healthy, haven’t experienced any complications in your pregnancy, and aren’t too far along, your doctor probably won’t have any problem with you traveling.  However, it is still best to have that discussion with your doctor.  According to the two doctors that I talked with, it is perfectly fine to travel well into the third trimester.  If you are pregnant with twins or have had complications in your pregnancy, your doctor may recommend no traveling after 26 to 28 weeks.  Only you and your doctor can make that decision so it is important to have that conversation.

  2. Have your doctor provide you with a letter giving you medical clearance to fly.  

    Most airlines do not put any restrictions on pregnant passengers that are less than 28 weeks pregnant.  However, once you hit 28 weeks (or look like you are 28 weeks) you may start getting some questions from airline staff.  When you discuss your travel plans for your doctor ask for a letter that states how far along you are in your pregnancy, when you exact due date is, and that you are medically sound to fly.  I requested a letter just like this even though I was only 16 and 17 weeks during my trip last year.  Since I was carrying twins, I obviously looked like I was much farther along than that so I wanted to be sure that I had proof with me if any airline staff questioned me.

  3. Be familiar with your airline’s policy for pregnant passengers. 

    Here’s the deal.  There is no consistency to the restrictions that airlines place on pregnant passengers.  Most airlines will let you travel without any questions or restrictions until 28 weeks.  However, after that point, every airline has a different policy.  Some airlines won’t let you travel past 32 weeks while others require a letter of clearance from your doctor after 36 weeks.  Make sure you check the website for the airline you will be using to see what their policy is before you go.

  4. Take nausea medication with you…even if you think you don’t need it.

    With my first set of twins, I threw up all day every day for the entire pregnancy.  Our second set of twins proved to be much kinder to me.  I had very little morning sickness with Harrison and Katherine.  Because I hadn’t really been sick, I didn’t think I would need any medication for travel sickness.  Boy, was I wrong!  I ended up feeling very nauseated on several of my flights and finally got sick in Paris.  I highly recommend taking something with you whether it is a prescription medication from your doctor or an over-the-counter medication.  Even if you don’t need it, it is better to have it on you just in case.

  5. Move.  

    Pregnancy puts you at a higher risk for developing blood clots when flying.  One of the best ways to prevent this is to make sure that you move regularly.  If you are on a long flight, make sure that you get up at least once an hour and walk the aisle.  Take a trip to the bathroom (you’re probably going to need to go anyway).  Flex your feet and ankles while you are sitting.  Use your feet to write the alphabet while sitting in your seat.  I also recommend buying compression socks.  These also helping with preventing the development of clots while flying.  I bought and used these compression socks and loved them.  They worked really well for me.

  6. Be prepared to swell.

    I always swell a bit when I travel but I wasn’t prepared for how swollen my feet were by the end of my trip.  The compression socks that I mentioned earlier will help with swelling too.  I also recommend taking shoes that are a bit forgiving such as canvas shoes or flip flops, weather permitting.  I lived in a pair of the classic canvas TOMS on my trip last year.  The canvas was forgiving enough that when my feet would swell my shoes didn’t cut into my feet.  Also, make sure you have some room in your itinerary where you can stop and rest if your legs are too swollen.

  7. Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate.

    Any time you travel you need make sure that you stay hydrated but it is especially important when you are pregnant.  Drinking an adequate amount of water will help with travel sickness and swelling.  One of the best ways to ensure that you are staying hydrated is by keeping water with you.  I recommend this Camelbak water bottle.  I like these because they come with a straw which makes it easy to drink out of without tilting the bottle up and  they are also spill proof.  The way the lid is designed on the Camelbak also allows me to use a carabiner to attach it to my back pack which is really helpful while traveling.

  8. Grab a snack to go.  

    I am not a breakfast eater.  Never have been but I really can’t stomach eating in the mornings when I’m pregnant.  While traveling last year, I tried to force myself to eat breakfast every morning because I knew it could be a while before I got a chance to eat again.  Forcing myself to eat breakfast when it is not something I usually do probably contributed to the nausea that I experienced in Paris.  After spending a day vomiting and feeling terrible, I vowed not to make myself eat breakfast if I didn’t feel like it for the rest of the trip.  That ended up being a great idea.  However, I often found myself hungry before it was time for the next meal so I learned to keep some food in my purse.  Grab some granola bars or another portable snack to keep with you at all times.  Crackers are good options and can help if you feel nauseated.

  9. Listen to your body.Remember to take it easy as needed.  Listen to your body and rest if you need to.  If yout fret are swelling and you’re exhausted, make sure that you squeeze some time in to rest.
  10. Relax.You’re on vacation!  Remember to slow down and relax.  Traveling while pregnant is safe the majority of the time so relax and have fun!

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March Madness

Starting Out Rough

I had really high hopes that March would be a bit easier on us than January and February. However, that is not proving to be true so far.  Just four days into March and we have sick kids…again.  Poor Lauren has had a headache and congestion all week.  I’m pretty sure that it is a pretty terrible sinus infection.  Early Friday morning, Emily woke Daniel and I up to let us know that she had thrown up in her bed.  Daniel got her cleaned up and her bedding changed while I nursed Katherine.  About fifteen minutes after we all were back in bed, Jackson came to our room to let us know that he had thrown up in his bed also.  Needless to say, all five kids got to stay home from school with Dad on Friday.

Grad School Blues

Graduate school is officially kicking my rear.  I started this degree in June of 2015 and plowed through every semester without feeling too stressed about any of this.  This semester, however, has been awful.  I have absolutely no motivation and I’m finding it difficult to get anything done.  I have never struggled this much with any classes and I am barely getting anything read or done.  Forget doing the research I desperately need to do.   I have already checked out when it comes to grad school.

This week I received the information for my comprehensive exams that I will have to take (and pass) in April in order to be eligible for graduation. It was some overwhelming information.  The test will end up being a seven hour commitment and it is pass or fail.  It can cover ANYTHING from my coursework…two years of work.  I’m not even sure how to prepare for this.  Just praying to survive the rest of this semester.  69 days until graduation!

The Silver Lining

There is a little silver lining for March and the rest of this school year.  First, I leave for Italy in 12 days!  What?!?  I seriously can’t wait.  I need some travel time.  Sometimes I feel trapped at home and traveling is such a breath of fresh air for me.  Seeing how big the world is always makes me realize how insignificant most of my problems are.  With everything weighing me down right now, I really need that perspective. Plus, there is cheese, pasta, and gelato.  I may never come home.

Second, we signed Emily and Jackson up for soccer last week.  Baseball sign-ups started this past Thursday and we signed Jackson up to play that as well.  With the exception of football in the fall, I really love spring and summer sports.  I look forward to baseball and swim team as much as the kids do.  Jackson’s a bit nervous about baseball this year.  He is moving up from t-ball to coach-pitch and he is terrified that he is going to get hit with the ball.  Daniel has promised to practice with him a ton.  Hopefully, it will be a good season for him.

The girls are wrapping up dance classes.  Their recital will be in May.  I honestly can’t wait.  I usually really enjoy dance but with grad school it has felt really overwhelming this year.  Three nights a week the girls are at the dance studio.  I am so ready for a break from dance.  Once the recital is over, we won’t have any dance related activities until August!  Praise the Lord!

How’s your March going so far?  What are you looking forward to this spring?

 

 

Welcome!

The French Lemon

Welcome to The French Lemon!

Hi! I’m Chelsea!  I’m a mother of five, including two sets of twins! My children range in age from nine years old to four months old. I work full time and I am currently pursuing a graduate degree as well.  I love to read, write, bake, craft, and travel.  Our kids participate in a plethora of sports, everything from swim team to ballet.  Our family is always on the go.  People constantly ask me how we do it so I created The French Lemon to share (or maybe overshare) our lives with you.

My Vision for The French Lemon

I have blogged in the past.  Most recently, I ran a book review blog at The Wordy Nerd Books.  I love reading books and I always seem to have someone asking for a book recommendation.  I started The Wordy Nerd in order to keep up with the books I’ve read but also to provide a quick review for those interested.  I’ve loved sharing what I’m reading for the past few years but when I started graduate school in 2015 I really began to slack on reading anything for pleasure or posting any reviews.

I’m just starting my last semester of my graduate studies and have really felt the pull to begin blogging again.  While I love sharing my own personal opinions on the books I read, I also want to share so much more so I chose to start The French Lemon.  I envision The French Lemon being a creative outlet where I can share my favorite things, parenting tips I’ve picked up along the way, projects I’m completing as well as the books that I’m reading.

Follow Along on Our Adventures!

I hope that you will follow along with me as I share what we’re doing, what we’re eating, what we’re reading, and how we are not only surviving but thriving as a family of seven!  You can subscribe via Bloglovin’ by clicking that “Follow” button on the right!